Category: LGBT

What happened when an Orthodox Jewish congregation went to a gay bar to mourn Orlando

“What happened when an Orthodox Jewish congregation went to a gay bar to mourn Orlando” By Rabbi Shmuel Herzfeld

“I learned that when a rabbi and members of an Orthodox synagogue walk into a gay African American bar, it is not the opening line of a joke but an opportunity to connect; it is an opportunity to break down barriers and come together as one; it is an opportunity to learn that if we are going to survive, we all need each other.”

Opinion | What happened when an Orthodox Jewish congregation went to a gay bar to mourn Orlando

When our synagogue heard about the horrific tragedy that took place at the Pulse nightclub in Orlando, it was at the same time that we were celebrating our festival of Shavuot, which celebrates God’s giving of the Torah. As Orthodox Jews, we don’t travel or use the Internet on the Sabbath or on holidays, such as Shavuot.

Admit it Ororo– aren’t there times you wish you were “normal”? -Honestly…? No. Not for a moment Not once. #Storm #Xmen #LGBT #Black #AfricanAmerican #African shared by @fairforpresident

Admit it Ororo– aren’t there times you wish you were “normal”? -Honestly…? No. Not for a moment Not once. #Storm #Xmen #LGBT #Black #AfricanAmerican #African shared by @fairforpresident bit.ly/25Ysgrg

Orlando

My middle name’s Orlando. Massacres are horrible, and evenmoreso when you realize it’s not geographic, it’s topical. This sadness and devastation is not all right.

This can happen not because some evil person is allowed access to an arsenal, but because our culture is OK with that evil person killing any and everyone. Doesn’t matter where, just why. I thought it was anyone that isn’t the majority, that Charleston because they’re black and Orlando because they’re LGBT; but Aurora, Columbine, Sandy Hook, Virginia Tech…nope. I see photographs of guys and gals who look just like me. They literally look just like me, and you too. …But, doesn’t every tragedy? It’s a shade of difference when you know people just like you were targeted for not just a shared interest but because of who they are. Anywhere in this country. So what do our leaders say? What drives their every decision?

Our government and our people don’t just want every American the liberty of gun ownership, they want every American, no matter who they are, as long as they are able to get away with it, to have an arsenal if they want. If a single person with a pistol or a bomb or a knife wasn’t concerning enough, now this tragedy is part of the lexicon. The papers aren’t talking about mental health, morals or religious extremism…not truly. The underlining factor is that these tools of mass-murder are readily available in addition to those topics. Little controls, little policing, little funding, and little fear.

The biggest shame? It won’t be until people of influence are gunned down for policies to change. I don’t want that. I want as many lives to be safe, untouched, and cherished. Yet in the meantime, all I can hope is that it’s not you or me that’s next. Prevention isn’t stopping the deadliest massacre nor the smallest homicide. Our law enforcement are ardent but need political change and civic support. This is why we must live our lives to the happiest; that we can enjoy all that God gives us while we have the liberty and luxury in this world.

These crumbs are not conversation starters

‘The Tenth’ Zine is a flawless response to #GayMediaSoWhite & Awful Gay Magazines

“While some fashion magazines have published a special “all-black” issue, and black magazines sometimes run a story through an LGBT-lens and gay magazines will put the President on the cover even though he happens to be black, we shouldn’t be beginning for these crumbs. These crumbs are not conversation-starters. They are not meant to fulfill, but to pacify. What we need is to build our own goddamn table, and you know it’s gotta be at least ten times better.”

How Many Married

Stuck at the doctor. On the television is the Game Show Network. How many married women would go to their son’s wedding to another man? Not 5 Nancy, you suck. Listen to your own argument.

It’s her son, and she’d want him to be happy. 23. You go Patty, you go! #lgbt

Gender-Neutral Singular They by Dictionary.com

Gender-Neutral Singular They blog.dictionary.com/gender-neutral-singular-they/ at Dictionary.com

The linguists have voted, but will gender-neutral singular they actually catch on? As a pronoun for gender nonconforming individuals, they seems more poised to take off in a mainstream way over another option like ze, because they is already a part of all English speakers’ vocabularies. There’s less of a barrier to entry, especially with major publications like the Washington Post officially allowing its use as part of their style guide. As linguist Geoff Nunberg recently pointed out (no doubt with a twinkle in his eye): “everyone uses singular they, whether or not they realize it.”