Category: Manners and Morals


Welcome to Live Soulstrong: A blog by Justin Fair. Here you’ll find writings, photos + notes on visual and performing arts, design, technology, health and pop culture.

Why? Well, this is a catch-all for my social media finds. Especially helpful when I want to get a bigger picture of all of my multi-platform finds and thoughts. How come? I’m journaling my pursuit for discipline and expression. This includes my many interests and public discourse.

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Gender-Neutral Singular They by

Gender-Neutral Singular They at

The linguists have voted, but will gender-neutral singular they actually catch on? As a pronoun for gender nonconforming individuals, they seems more poised to take off in a mainstream way over another option like ze, because they is already a part of all English speakers’ vocabularies. There’s less of a barrier to entry, especially with major publications like the Washington Post officially allowing its use as part of their style guide. As linguist Geoff Nunberg recently pointed out (no doubt with a twinkle in his eye): “everyone uses singular they, whether or not they realize it.”

A Story for Adoption, on The Moth Radio Hour: Live from NYC

This first story is wonderful.


A special live edition of The Moth recorded at The Players Club in New York City. A professional who works with adoption services details the personal reason she was drawn to her work, a son desperately seeks a connection with his father after a near deadly plane crash, and a Lutheran minister visits The Middle East and combats her intense fear of heights.

Storytellers: Maris Blechner, Joshua Wolf Shenk, Nadia Bolz-Weber.

How Do I Continue a Stalled Conversation?

In The Public Speaker

Do you ever get stuck in a conversation, not knowing what to say next? Lisa B. Marshall, aka The Public Speaker, shares lots of great tips to keep that conversation going.

  • What are you looking for in the ideal candidate?
  • Why was X a good fit for you?
  • How did you get into … ?
  • What is the best part of working at X … ?
  • What’s the biggest challenge of your current role … ?
  • Or you can just say, “Ah, that’s interesting. Tell me more.”

Hidden Brain Lonely Hearts

Reminds me of the same idea that sparked the movie “Her”…


Jesse always wanted to fall in love. So when the perfect woman started writing him letters, it seemed too good to be true. Because it was. This week, a story about a con — with a twist. When the con was exposed, its victims defended the con artists. They still wanted to believe the lie..